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SACRAMENT OF HEALING

Reconciliation

Encountering God's infinite mercy, forgiveness, and healing grace.

God's Mercy Is Always Available

Through the Sacrament of Reconciliation, we encounter the profound mercy and unconditional love of God. No matter how long it has been, or how heavy our burden, God's forgiveness is always available to those who seek it with a sincere heart.

We warmly welcome all parishioners — and those away from the Church for any length of time — to experience the peace and healing of this beautiful sacrament.

First Reconciliation and Ongoing Confession

FOR CHILDREN

First Reconciliation

A child's first confession. Children prepare through our faith formation program, usually in Grade 2, in the same year they prepare for First Communion, and celebrate the sacrament together in a gentle, welcoming way before their First Communion.

FOR EVERYONE

Confession

After First Reconciliation, the sacrament is there for you for the rest of your life. Come to any of the regular confession times below. No appointment is needed, and you can always call the office to arrange another time.

Preparing Your Child for First Reconciliation

First Reconciliation is part of the sacramental preparation year, alongside First Communion. Here is how it works at St. Charles Garnier:

  • Who: baptized children in at least Grade 2 who are enrolled in our parish catechism program or attend a Catholic school.
  • When: the preparation program runs from September to May. Registration opens each September.
  • Parents: you take part in the preparation sessions with your child. Your example is the most important part of their preparation.
  • What to bring: your child's baptismal certificate when you register.
  • The celebration: the children celebrate First Reconciliation together, with the priest, in the months before First Communion in the spring.

To register or ask a question, choose First Reconciliation in the inquiry form on this page, email formation.scg.kelowna@nelsondiocese.org, or call the parish office at 250-860-6776.

Confession Times

Saturday

4:30 to 4:45 PM — before the 5:00 PM Vigil Mass.

Tuesday & Friday

9:00 to 9:30 AM.

By Appointment

To arrange confession outside regular times, call the parish office at 250-860-6776. We are always available for you.

Understanding Reconciliation

Conversion

Reconciliation begins with a sincere examination of conscience and heartfelt contrition — a genuine turning back to God with sorrow for sin and the firm resolve to avoid sin in the future.

Confession

We confess our sins privately to a priest, who acts in the person of Christ. The confessional is a sacred space of mercy, never judgment.

Penance

The priest assigns a penance — typically prayers or acts of charity — as a sign of our willingness to repair the harm caused by sin and to strengthen our commitment to conversion.

Forgiveness

Through the power given by Christ to the Apostles, the priest absolves us from our sins in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Reconciliation

We are reconciled with God and with the Church. This beautiful sacrament restores and strengthens our relationship with God and brings deep peace to the soul.

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

1 JOHN 1:9

Common Questions

Do I need an appointment?

No appointment is needed during scheduled confession times. For confession outside of regular hours, please contact the parish office to arrange a convenient time.

My child is preparing for First Communion. Do they make First Reconciliation first?

Yes. Children celebrate First Reconciliation before they receive First Communion. Both are part of the same preparation year, and the parish walks your family through each step.

How do I prepare for confession?

Take quiet time to examine your conscience, reflecting honestly on your thoughts, words, actions, and omissions since your last confession. Many people find a written examination of conscience helpful.

What if I am nervous?

ANSWER TBC — text to come from the parish office.

How often should I go to confession?

The Church requires Catholics to confess serious (mortal) sins at least once per year. However, regular confession — even of venial sins — is strongly encouraged as a powerful spiritual practice.

We Welcome You

Come as you are. God's mercy is without limit. Confession is available every Saturday at 4:30 PM, or by appointment.